Well I just set up a server (did it before, about two years ago and didn't remember 99% of it) and I have to say that the problem is actually too much information. There are various ways to set up and multiple database sources and you end up mixing methods together and things don't work as expected.
There's also a problem with the peq installer's eqlaunch.exe. Its too small and doesn't run (for me and about five others I've seen describing the same problem) and a new admin usually thinks if something doesn't work then they are doing something wrong (98% of the time that's correct).
The other problem is that the information is spread across multiple sources and in many cases is exceptionally difficult to find in the wikki. Wikki's are great and all but their search engines are very weak.
In the end it turned out to be far easier to set up a peq server than I had expected. It boiled down to:
* Install Perl (don't bother with the older version as the peqinstaller says - you'll update peq before running the server anyway)
* Install EQTitanium
* Install Wampserver
http://www.wampserver.com/en/
php, apache, mysql that just works! Important note - the default permissions has root with no password - google wamp root password if you don't know how to change this.
* Run peq server (with maps) installer
It will want you to show it where EQemu is installed, where EQ Titanium is installed (to get files from there), where the mysql root directory is (c:\wamp\bin\mysql\mysqlxx.xx)
Go to the project EQ forums and down at the bottom is the peq installer board, there's a stick for updates. Get the latest version and run it.
* configure your loginserver.ini and eqemu.config.xml as needed
run start.bat
* NOTE! a couple of windows will pop up (or three if you run minilogin). One of them will say its waiting for the world to finish - when that disappears another should replace it (zone). If nothing happens then quit the server (close the windows) and check your eqlaunch.exe - it should be about 220k. If its 148k then its no good. Download the eqemu zip from eqemulator (same version as the peq update!) and copy its eqlaunch.exe to your eqemu directory and try again.
That takes care of the software side - configuring the software is a whole different ballgame.