Well, here's one way:
After your ID is in your databse (you've logged into your server at least once)
run mysql
use eq (assuming eq is your database)
update account set status='200' where name='EQlogin name';
What I prefer to do is to just edit db.sql and add a line right after the "emu" entry. That way I don't have to keep adding it when I rebuild my database. I cut and paste it, then change the values to what they need to be. The tricky part was finding what the LSaccount number is. You have to login to your server and watch the output of world when it says you are logging in.
On a side note, the emu account is generally for the stand alone login servers, and it has account status 200. You do change the default password or delete that account, right?
I have also found it pretty useful to have a cron job that runs every minute on my Linux box. It sets all users that have normal privledges to vPrivUser status. That way, I don't have to worry about setting levels and skills.
Now, if I can just remember to edit the MOTD part of db.sql I won't have to remember to set it up everytime I reload.....