What about your eqhost.txt file. What do you have in it. Also, I dont think that you need the Config.ini or the DB.ini. Thoses things have been integrated into the eqemu_config.xml file.
Make sure your eqhost says this,
Code:
[LoginServer]
Host=YourINTERNALIPHERE:5999
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Nevermind on that, I see where you first said that your able to get to the server select screen.