thanks will try that again. Just found this people have had the same problem.
http://www.eqemulator.org/forums/showthread.php?t=29784
Before you sourced the load_player.sql did you open the file and set the correct file paths?
By default it will look something like this:
source player_tables/aa_timers.sql;
source player_tables/account.sql;
source player_tables/account_ip.sql;
source player_tables/account_rewards.sql;
But in order for it to work it should look similar to this:
source C:/Temp/player_tables/aa_timers.sql;
source C:/Temp/player_tables/account.sql;
source C:/Temp/player_tables/account_ip.sql;
source C:/Temp/player_tables/account_rewards.sql;
and i did this but still will not work for me.