Problem with standalone loading!

[blackdragonsdg]

I don't think that shared key is entered any where else. The only other thing that looks out of place is the ip address 192.168.0.10 in this section.

		<!-- Loginserver information.  Defaults shown -->
		<loginserver>
			<host>192.168.0.10</host>
			<port>5999</port>
			<account>admin</account>
			<password>random</password>
		</loginserver>

The rest of the ip addresses in your config files are set to 127.0.0.1 but that one is different. Have you tried changing it to 127.0.0.1
I don't know that it will help but it just might.

[c0ncrete]

that's probably it, because 10061 is a standard windows socket error. it means the computer at the address responded, but refused the connection.