Ok user error as usual. I had originally attempted to get the server up and running with minilogin so I still had the record in the variables table. That's why it wasn't showing up on the server list. Deleted that record and now the server shows up in the list...
Now I'll try and get Lua turned on and search around to try and figure out how I can connect to the server on my network when I'm trying to connect from inside my network.