Minilogin working but no server to log in to...

[demen_03]

hmm I did GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES... blah blah blah
but forgot to do "world.exe adduser eqemu eqemu 200"
when I did do this I got:

Failed to connect to database: Error: #1045: Access denied for user: 'eqemu@127.0.0.1' (Using password: YES)
[Status] CURRENT_WORLD_VERSION:EQEMu 0.4.4-DR1
[Error] CURRENT_WORLD_VERSION:EQEMu 0.4.4-DR1
Account Attempting to be created:eqemu 200
Database Error: Lost connection, attempting to recover....
DB Query Error #2006: MySQL server has gone away
Error in CreateAccount query 'INSERT INTO account SET name='eqemu', password='eqemu', status=200, lsaccount_id=0;' #2006: MySQL server has gone away
database.CreateAccount failed.

any idea why I get access denied? I did the GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES and seemed to work fine until I tried adduser /shrug